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How to Help: Children

Children have needs that span a variety of different economic, physical, emotional and social issues. Some may live at or below the poverty line and may be unable to receive the adequate material assistance that they need to survive. Others may receive material support but suffer from physical abuse and/or neglect. Children are particularly vulnerable as they depend on others for their support and survival.

According to American psychologist Abraham Maslow (1908-1970), it is essential that basic needs are met before other problems can be addressed (see figure below). To apply this theory to children today when trying to protect them and help them, basic physical needs need to be taken care of initially. Other vital factors to be addressed include a child’s need to feel safe and secure and have their social needs met through good friends, mentors, love, and support.


Children who grow up in circumstances without these fundamental elements are at risk for hindered intellectual and emotional development. They will often not be able to reach their potential or perform as well as students who have these basic needs met. In some circumstances, it can even be a matter of life or death.

The statistics regarding children can reveal some very startling patterns:

  • Almost one out of five children in the United States (18% in 2000) grows up in poverty. Young children are more likely to be poor than any other age group.
  • The rate of child victims of maltreatment and abuse was approximately 12.4 per 1000 children, according to nationwide data in 2003. Child maltreatment can consist of neglect and/or a combination of physical, sexual, and emotional abuse. [1]
  • The total number of children placed into foster or adoption care in Massachusetts during 2004 amounted to 9,828 children – 30,480 children were NOT placed. [2]

These statistics highlight the variety of problems faced by children can help families understand the different needs they can address.

Basic material/physiological needs need to be met. It is essential for children to have basic material necessities, including food, water, oxygen, sleep, and shelter.

Safety and protection from harm are vital. Children need to feel safe and protected. Many children are victims of abuse – whether physical, emotional, or sexual - which brings severe consequences, including death.

Loving social and emotional support is also required. Material support and physical safety alone are not enough. Some children are neglected in other ways that impede their social and emotional health and welfare. Along with support from family and/or guardians, children need to feel love and a sense of belonging, and know that they are important and valued. Children need nurturing environments that give them the opportunity to reach their full potential. It is through love and support that they will feel valued and be in a better position to make healthy choices about their lives and futures.

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[1] “Child Maltreatment 2003.” Chapter 3: Victims. US Department of Health and Human Services - Administration for Children and Families. Available online: http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cb/publications/cm03/chapterthree.htm#types

[2] Childhelp, USA. Available online: http://www.childhelpusa.org